A Little Bit About Me
I'm 51.
My pictures are all recent from last year, 2022/3.
I look a lot younger than I am & very young at heart, fit, healthy & can give most 35 year olds a run for their money!
Born, raised & live in North London.
I'm divorced, have 4 children, they live with their mother. Unfortunately they do not want to have a relationship with me & I do not see them much.....long story.
But I am open to having children.
I am the eldest of three siblings, I have a very small family here and no extended family whatsoever. All in Pakistan, therefore zero drama!
I work in public transport.
Proper night owl and definitely not a morning person, I never work mornings & haven't done so for over 20 years, I just don't function well in the morning!
Alhamdulillah Allah has given me the opportunities & the ability to take care of my responsibilities enabling me to have a very stable life.
Not here to mess about, to look for a friend or to long things out. Just need to honestly talk about what you're looking for & hopefully if there is compatibility there then things can move forward.
I'm a pretty simple person really, not materialistic & quite content with the simple things in life.
Like doing all the usual things, if & when I can.
I can be a bit of a homebody just like to stay in watch Netflix, documentaries etc, & love to cuddle on the sofa. I'm not a busybody who always on the go & like to take things easy.
I do go to the gym which is an integral part of my life & been doing so since my mid teens. Therefore eat quite healthy as well and not somebody who regularly eats out.
Don't get me wrong I do love food but I have a good handle on it and only indulge now & again.
Always groomed & look after myself.
I am a non smoker..... Shisha & e-cigarettes are smoking so that is a definite no-no for me, major put off.
I am quite a thorough & organised person & do like to do things properly.
I like to plan than be spontaneous.
I'm not into football, cricket, tennis or any other sport really & I don't watch them either.
Not on any social media platform apart from WhatsApp. I have zero interest in posting anything or making pointless comments.
I find it quite annoying when people are constantly looking at tiktok videos & Instagram on their phone.
Cannot stand Bollywood movies, Indian or Pakistani dramas....not because I can't understand Urdu, I can speak it fluently.
Love old 80's & 90's music hip hop an R&B, but don't really listen to much music these days.
I'm very loyal, reliable, responsible, respectful, dependable & affectionate. Definitely not arrogant. I would say I have a good sense of humour but everyone says that, so what is a good sense of humour? I can have a very dark sense of humour though & I am definitely not easily offended.
I'm an open book, very easy going & love to talk. I'm really chilled out not stuck up or arrogant, affectionate & caring.
I mean what I say & say what I mean....people who make promises & don't keep to their word really grinds my gears as well as individuals who have bad time keeping & are not punctual, have bad manners.
I am Muslim first before I am Pakistani.
For me it's Islam over culture, also don't do Khatams, Milaads or celebrate our Prophet's birthday.
I read all my daily prayers & have been doing so for some time now, also read the Quran daily.
Being a Muslim isn't just about this it's about your attitude, being good to people & mindful of others having a soft heart & your own behaviour.
I'm very open minded, very easy going & love having a good chat & conversation.
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What I Am Looking For
Just looking for a decent Muslim woman who has good family values is respectful, simple, loving, caring, follows the Deen as best she can & dresses modestly (no skirts, sleeveless tops etc & I make no apologies).
Not looking for a Muslim feminist who wants all the benefits, that come with being a Muslim woman, but does not want the traditional responsibilities that come with it... sorry!
I'm not looking for anyone who is overly into their career or career minded. I don't mind my wife working but not to the extent where the job takes over.
We all have our roles and I believe that the wife's role is more focused in the home.
I do love the hijab & would prefer that you would wear one. Although I do realise wearing a hijab is not a sign of religiosity, as long as you are a good muslima and hope to strive to where one one day on a regular basis.
Somebody I can trust depend on & enjoy each others company with. Someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and definitely not looking for a drama queen!
Is health conscious and mindful of their physical well-being.
I am not particularly concerned about your level of education, status, job or race. As long as you are an intelligent decent understanding person & a practicing Muslim. Because I believe if you are practising & have the fear of Allah in you then this will enable you to make the right choices and most things tend to fall in place.
Oh and definitely not a follower of the cast nonsense!
Finally....
I don't understand why so many have no pics in the public profile! It is halal to show your face you know. Initial attraction is important, it's not blind date here!
Also some putting very little information about themselves, a nice picture isn't always enough to go by on!
If you have bothered to read all the way down to here you have done quite well!
Do not hesitate to message me, I will reply when I can.
Even if nothing comes of it I'm sure we will just have a plesent exchange.
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